【梅克军团】「V的秘密花园」五十七岁，得知天命：给年轻人的建议

vander · 发表于 5 天前

我回来啦～这一年变故不少，开局踌躇满志，却在两个offer里选了个烂人，抑郁了大半年。不论如何，目前情况稍稍安定，准备赴美开始下一份工作。然而好死不死川普马上要二进宫了哈哈哈呜(;´༎ຶД༎ຶ`)

今天向大家推荐一部鸡汤短片“I'm 57. If you're in your 20's please watch this.”首先声明我并不了解创作者的背景；据称@marktilbury是一位百万级的富商，近年主要在网络媒体上活动，向年轻人群介绍理财策略。

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Our experience can probably help you avoid many mistakes if you take the time to listen. However, if you disagree with something I say, you don't have to follow my advice.

全片时长22:43，包括50条建议，说是鸡汤罐头也不为过。但是，很神奇地，我觉得他说得还不错，比如“不要在人后议论，这会给听者留下不可靠的印象”。都是说烂了的教条，大概也是经验之谈，让我不由得想起过往的种种失足和笑话——人呀，果然永远无法从历史中学到教训。很难想象自己到了天命之年是什么样子，大概外皮垂垂老矣，内里依旧幼稚吧。。

00:00 Intro
00:09 1. Work on your willpower
00:40 2. Producer VS Consumer
00:54 3. Be nice to people on the come up
01:19 4. Watch others & then do the opposite
01:59 5. Who you know matters more than what you know
02:10 6. Never talk behind someone's back
02:28 7. Make more mistakes
02:59 8. Make reversible decisions quickly
03:22 9. Focus on one thing at a time
03:36 10. Don’t be the best, be the only
04:00 11. If you don’t like something then change it.
04:31 12. Work smart not hard
05:52 13: Assume you can learn something new from everyone
06:22 14. Never disrespect your elders
06:44 15. Don’t be scared of change, embrace it.
07:18 16. Live in the moment, not on your phone
07:46 17. Always pay the bill
08:02 18. Say no if you aren’t ready
08:20 19. Present yourself in the way you wish to be perceived
08:41 20. Mentally prepare yourself for your loved ones dying
09:04 21. Never take rejection personally
09:18 22. Don’t be embarrassed to take a nap
09:40 23. Learn from those who disagree with you
09:56 24. Never be late
10:10 25. Be motivated by something greater than money
10:38 26. Be fuelled by vision not fear
10:48 27. Stand up to bullies
11:13 28. Use your unfair advantages
11:39 29. Skip the flashy car
12:00 30. Prioritise your reputation
12:17 31. Don't compare yourself to your friends
12:36 32. Don’t let a bad day turn into a bad week
12:55 33. Always Pay off your credit card
13:12 34. Any job is better than no job
13:36 35. Never invest without doing your research
13:56 36. Being a great storyteller can get you anything you want
14:21 37. Don’t live your life for others
14:42 38. Have a solid paycheck routine
15:21 39. It's not the end of the world if you don't have everything figured out
15:52 40. Start investing now
16:14 41. The quality of your questions will shape your future success.
16:56 42. Make sure to enjoy the journey, not just focus on the destination
17:39 43. Nothing is ever free
18:20 44. Stop waiting to be inspired
18:44 45. Work hard now for an easier life later
19:33 46. Tackle the tough tasks in the morning
20:15 47. The name of a university means absolutely nothing
20:35 48. Look after your back.
21:14 49. Don’t stress about being different—you don’t have to fit in
21:58 50. Choose your partner wisely.